People are different with different people. This fact is most evident when studying or comparing astrological charts.

For instance, if one believes that communication is of primary importance in their relationships, they would need to have people in their lives with whom they could carry on conversations and have an easy flow of information, facts, fantasy, familial exchanges. Or let us say that an individual’s strongest inclination is toward non-verbal communication in more active physical expression. In that case they would get along better perhaps with those of fewer words but a more substantive or material nature – a hands on, feet moving, head in the game kind of person.

Most of us are a mix of influences and preferences with multi-dimensional personalities. Some can even be the personification of the fickle nature of human beings, being human. We feel one way when in the presence of one part of our astrological nature and a different way in another environment, group, experience, or time.

One of Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs illustrates the importance of a sense of “belongingness”.  We know that not everyone is born into a house that seems familiar. In fact, for some it feels completely foreign. This can lead to a sense of isolation even when surrounded by “family” or “community”.

Some might say we are all accidents of nature – with no control over to whom or where we were born; others believe there is an order and a plan for each. Whatever one believes, we can have some control over our choices – where we choose live, what we choose to do with our time here on Earth and whether or not we wish to become the person we were born to be.

Knowing and understanding your natural leanings can help you recognize people, places and spaces that resonate with your wavelength in this vast universe of possibilities. This recognition and your own choices can help you develop your skills and make the most of your inborn gifts.

Maine Astrologic can help.